Well this is typical me, the G thing turned into a relationship & is about to end. Its a shame really as even though I think she is pretty disfunctional I actually really like her.
As I type this I am having a beer & contemplating the fact that another relationship is probably over so how did I get here ?
The 1st month...It really was good we got on just fine. I think that we both thought we had found some one serious & we where basically enjoying each other.
Month 2... We where seeing more & more of each other & would regularly spend the weekends together. Looking back I can see that things where a bit strained..
My birthday, I got really drunk (2 months into the relationship) & told her I loved her, apparently (I am ashamed to admit) I even asked her what song we would play at our wedding. Obviously this would have been a great time for her to tell me she loved me & all would have been well but no. So I felt like an idiot & was aware that things were not 100%.
We had arranged to go away for a long weekend so 2 weeks later we did just that. This was to be 2 days of just us followed by 2 days of friends & family. Things didn't get off to a good start with her having a bit of a wobble on morning number 1 about me being too loud & sweary (which I can be). Apart from that we had a great time doing things that we both like, walking, cycling etc. I was then introduced to 14 members of family & friends & G started acting quite distant. Basically she would be in a flap running round organising things & generally ignoring me. Not good, I left the weekend after having some great fun but also feeling less than happy about the state of our relationship.
So another 2 weeks pass & I'm off again a wedding reception. It was a bit weird as she was at the wedding & I joined her in the evening. I arrived and she instantly said something negative about the way I was dressed. We went for a walk & got over that. After a few drinks she & a friend started dancing & asking me to dance. I got up & started dancing & she freaked out saying not to dance with her but just dance with everyone. I mean really freaking out here & it pissed me off, but we talked & got over it. She was actually being really nice to me, showing affection & making sure I wasn't left alone etc. Next thing (no 3 ) she slipped off my lap & landed on the floor. Again another massive massive freak out. I was pissed off by this point & swore at her, told her to get a grip, no one saw, she wasn't hurt & it really didn't matter.
So the next day in the car we reflected about the previous night & agreed that it was fun but seemed like too much effort. I asked her if she wanted to be with me & she was unable to say yes. Its been a weird day as she has bee hugging me & we even tried to go sit in the park together but it was too weird. She doesn't know if she wants to be with me. She says she feels awkward as we are so different (she talks properly & is a bit posh). I do accept that there is a difference but it doesn't bother me as much. I have told her I need an answer as to whether we stay together or not & she is going to call me tomorrow. I left with her crying & I myself stayed composed, I'm pretty sure its the end of the relationship & its probably good thing as its all been too much hard work. Shame as I really enjoyed her company & now its back to square 1. I feel pretty crap right now but a beer is chilling me out. I really need to move house fuck me I have lived in this place far too long , I need a change badly......
I need to add this for my own sanity. Sex was pretty crap & she was terrible at blow jobs, great tits though, hmmmmmm
Next !
Sunday 26 April 2009
Sunday 1 February 2009
Date 4 - G
I txt G on Saturday morning & we arranged to meet later that evening.
After arriving at the pub things were a bit awkward. The pub was absolutely rammed and the best we could manage was to find a little place to stand. Thankfully soon enough a sofa became available & we started chatting. the we moved again to a decent spot, had a couple of drinks & things started going smoothly.
I started flirting with her & playing a game where we admitted our sexual likes taking it in turns, me stockings her bums etc. She seems to be into it one minute & then offended the next so I kept cooling it off & talking about normal things.
Then I came back from the loo & sat next to her. This was the start of some serious flirting & I looked at her thinking I would love to fuck her brains out. She was fully aware of this & was laughing & telling me to stop etc. Eventually though she leaned in & gave me a big snog. 5t was great - not the snog but the evening. That kind of heavy flirting followed by the pay off is such a buzz !
We went back to hers & had sex a few times over the evening. She was actually really nice, lots of hugging & chatting everything was nice & easy. She txt me yesterday evening & the vibe I get is she's up for some kind of ongoing arrangement. What she or I want from this remains to be seen but some more sex would be very nice indeed !
Meanwhile gorgeous girl J from Wednesday has been in touch & we are meeting tonight (Monday). Yes its all a bit busy but I am unavailable for a week after tonight so I had to squeeze her in.
The of course I'm off on my little break on Thursday with the prospect of shagging a different girl (SJ). Yes I seem to have many options right now. It never rains but it pours !
After arriving at the pub things were a bit awkward. The pub was absolutely rammed and the best we could manage was to find a little place to stand. Thankfully soon enough a sofa became available & we started chatting. the we moved again to a decent spot, had a couple of drinks & things started going smoothly.
I started flirting with her & playing a game where we admitted our sexual likes taking it in turns, me stockings her bums etc. She seems to be into it one minute & then offended the next so I kept cooling it off & talking about normal things.
Then I came back from the loo & sat next to her. This was the start of some serious flirting & I looked at her thinking I would love to fuck her brains out. She was fully aware of this & was laughing & telling me to stop etc. Eventually though she leaned in & gave me a big snog. 5t was great - not the snog but the evening. That kind of heavy flirting followed by the pay off is such a buzz !
We went back to hers & had sex a few times over the evening. She was actually really nice, lots of hugging & chatting everything was nice & easy. She txt me yesterday evening & the vibe I get is she's up for some kind of ongoing arrangement. What she or I want from this remains to be seen but some more sex would be very nice indeed !
Meanwhile gorgeous girl J from Wednesday has been in touch & we are meeting tonight (Monday). Yes its all a bit busy but I am unavailable for a week after tonight so I had to squeeze her in.
The of course I'm off on my little break on Thursday with the prospect of shagging a different girl (SJ). Yes I seem to have many options right now. It never rains but it pours !
Friday 30 January 2009
Dating trilogy wrap up.
Date 1 gorgeous amazing can't fault her, 2 & 3 not that bothered.
I called date 1 yesterday & left a message, she hasn't returned my call yet but always took a while to respond when we where organising our meet. I haven't given up yet.....
So the big question, "is internet dating worth it.
This week has cost me 3 nights out 1 of which was amazing 2 of which where ok. So you need time to do it. Financially I've spent a bit on buying food & drink for 2 dates & my own food/drink for the last. This has probably added up to about £80.
So I guess finance is the biggest cost which is ok for me. Non f these girls expect to eat, its always my suggestion & I don't mind paying, so no problem there.
The only time it gets depressing is if you are silly enough to build up your own expectations & the are disappointed when you meet. I have learned the hard way not to do that.
Conclusion
I have met a very gorgeous girl who I would love to try & have a relationship with and had a couple of nights entertainment.
So yes at this point I think it is worth it. Meanwhile G has been texting again & wants to go out for a drinkt, this will be a "real life" date as far as I am concerned as I met her through a friend. I would say we have a good chance of hitting it off & will sort something out soon.....
I called date 1 yesterday & left a message, she hasn't returned my call yet but always took a while to respond when we where organising our meet. I haven't given up yet.....
So the big question, "is internet dating worth it.
This week has cost me 3 nights out 1 of which was amazing 2 of which where ok. So you need time to do it. Financially I've spent a bit on buying food & drink for 2 dates & my own food/drink for the last. This has probably added up to about £80.
So I guess finance is the biggest cost which is ok for me. Non f these girls expect to eat, its always my suggestion & I don't mind paying, so no problem there.
The only time it gets depressing is if you are silly enough to build up your own expectations & the are disappointed when you meet. I have learned the hard way not to do that.
Conclusion
I have met a very gorgeous girl who I would love to try & have a relationship with and had a couple of nights entertainment.
So yes at this point I think it is worth it. Meanwhile G has been texting again & wants to go out for a drinkt, this will be a "real life" date as far as I am concerned as I met her through a friend. I would say we have a good chance of hitting it off & will sort something out soon.....
Date 3
This was triathlon girl H.
I now realise that writing about these dates is going to be hard work because generally they all follow the same format. Meet drink - eat - home. I have in the past had the exception which throws in shag at the end of it but not this week.
She was easy to talk to & quite good looking but super super fit. Its a bit weird sitting across from a women with more arm muscle than I can ever imagine having.
Anyway we chatted, it was pretty easy & then went to eat. She is an amazing sports woman & really interesting. Great ass & funny, very competitive. I must admit I felt a bit inadequate sitting across from a girl who is so fit .
I'm not sure if we should see each other again or not or whether she would want to anyway....
I now realise that writing about these dates is going to be hard work because generally they all follow the same format. Meet drink - eat - home. I have in the past had the exception which throws in shag at the end of it but not this week.
She was easy to talk to & quite good looking but super super fit. Its a bit weird sitting across from a women with more arm muscle than I can ever imagine having.
Anyway we chatted, it was pretty easy & then went to eat. She is an amazing sports woman & really interesting. Great ass & funny, very competitive. I must admit I felt a bit inadequate sitting across from a girl who is so fit .
I'm not sure if we should see each other again or not or whether she would want to anyway....
Thursday 29 January 2009
Date 2
The girl from the singles night.
Met in a pub had a couple of drinks & went on for a burger somewhere.
On the face of it the evening was exactly the same as yesterdays but it was oh so different. She is pretty good looking & a little bit flirty. We chatted but it was pretty strained in places, we flirted, I would definitely like to fuck her.
But & here's the but, I know I would get bored of her very quickly. Now the best thing to do will be to not see her again so hope fully one of the others will pan out.
Mean while I have had a text from another friend of a friend from the singles night G. She asked me out for a drink tonight & I said another time, yes she wants it in the bottom :) She's actually quite nice, not my normal type but who knows, will be fun !
Met in a pub had a couple of drinks & went on for a burger somewhere.
On the face of it the evening was exactly the same as yesterdays but it was oh so different. She is pretty good looking & a little bit flirty. We chatted but it was pretty strained in places, we flirted, I would definitely like to fuck her.
But & here's the but, I know I would get bored of her very quickly. Now the best thing to do will be to not see her again so hope fully one of the others will pan out.
Mean while I have had a text from another friend of a friend from the singles night G. She asked me out for a drink tonight & I said another time, yes she wants it in the bottom :) She's actually quite nice, not my normal type but who knows, will be fun !
Wednesday 28 January 2009
Wednesday's date - J
So date 1 of 3 over with & oh my god, this girl is absolutely beautiful. Stunningly pretty, I had to stop myself staring at her ....
We went to a nice pub, I rode the motorbike so couldn't drink. Had a couple of shandy's then dinner & chatted loads. I wonder if I was a bit manic or over excited who knows. I paid & she forgot to say thanks so called to apologise afterwards. I said she can make it up by buying next time so woohay !
Grrrr I would certainly love to get her in bed , man I need to go out properly with her & get pissed soon !
We went to a nice pub, I rode the motorbike so couldn't drink. Had a couple of shandy's then dinner & chatted loads. I wonder if I was a bit manic or over excited who knows. I paid & she forgot to say thanks so called to apologise afterwards. I said she can make it up by buying next time so woohay !
Grrrr I would certainly love to get her in bed , man I need to go out properly with her & get pissed soon !
Tuesday 27 January 2009
5 Weeks 3 days
So the singles dating night went ok. It was organised by a friend of a friend & I was asked to go along. Basically lots of single people, milling around & having a drink then dinner. My mission was to find my celebrity wife, I had my own celebrity alias, think , Bonny & Clyde.
I got chatting to 3 girls, one of whom was the very attractive wife. After the evening I mailed all 3 & she got in touch & we fixed a date for this Thursday.
Things are pretty busy this week as I have another date with a very good looking black or maybe mixed
girl arranged for tomorow (Wednesday), she sounds nice but maybe a little bit quiet. I also have a date with a "famous" trathlete on Friday night, she sounds great & we should have plenty to talk about. So its date mania for the next 3 nights.....
So work wise, very cute J has been relegated back to non crush status.
Cafe girl is going out with a disaster of a man, I think I could get her but it would be very messy as he also works at the same place.
I have a trip to Sweden planned for the end of next week. I am going to see a girl who I nearly hooked up with a few years ago. The trip is about getting away but if there's any chance of a little fun I will be more than up for it !
New girl at work is J, great tits very cute & highly fuckable, lets see how long she stays in my thoughts for ..........
How long will it be before I get some sex ! 5 weeks is plenty long enough really !
Don't get me wrong, I'm very happy in myself but I do love the pleasures of the flesh, lets see what these 3 dates bring.
I got chatting to 3 girls, one of whom was the very attractive wife. After the evening I mailed all 3 & she got in touch & we fixed a date for this Thursday.
Things are pretty busy this week as I have another date with a very good looking black or maybe mixed
girl arranged for tomorow (Wednesday), she sounds nice but maybe a little bit quiet. I also have a date with a "famous" trathlete on Friday night, she sounds great & we should have plenty to talk about. So its date mania for the next 3 nights.....
So work wise, very cute J has been relegated back to non crush status.
Cafe girl is going out with a disaster of a man, I think I could get her but it would be very messy as he also works at the same place.
I have a trip to Sweden planned for the end of next week. I am going to see a girl who I nearly hooked up with a few years ago. The trip is about getting away but if there's any chance of a little fun I will be more than up for it !
New girl at work is J, great tits very cute & highly fuckable, lets see how long she stays in my thoughts for ..........
How long will it be before I get some sex ! 5 weeks is plenty long enough really !
Don't get me wrong, I'm very happy in myself but I do love the pleasures of the flesh, lets see what these 3 dates bring.
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